ALL MY LIFE

DARAH MUDA - SALOMA

Hatiku rindu kepadamu
Tertawan sejak mula bertemu

Aku sangkakan bahagia
Cinta berbalas mesra
Tapi kanda buat lupa
Ku merana hati luka..a..aa..aa..

Masa remaja darah muda
Banyak gelora mudah tergoda
Orang baru kanda temu
Kini lupakan daku

Wahai abang orang lama
Jangan buang tetap sayang
Sayang...

Seniwati Saloma Daku Begitu Mengkagumi mu...

Ishmah Asmuran @ Along

Kenangan Bersama Sahabatku yang Disayangi...
Semoga persahabatan kita berkekalan selamanya...:)
love owez..:)

Ya Allah jika aku jatuh cinta, cintakanlah aku pada seseorang yang melabuhkan cintanya padaMu, agar bertambah kekuatanku untuk menyintaiMu..

Ya Muhaimin jika aku jatuh hati, izinkanlah aku menyentuh hati seseorang yang hatinya tertaut padaMu agar tidak terjatuh aku dalam jurang cinta nafsu…

Ya Rabbana jika aku jatuh hati, jagalah hatiku padanya agar tidak berpaling daripada hatiMu..

Ya Rabbul Izzati jika aku rindu, rindukanlah aku pada seseorang yang merindui syahid di jalanMu…

Ya Allah jika aku menikmati cinta kekasihMu, janganlah kenikmatan itu melebihi kenikmatan indahnya bermunajat di sepertiga malam terakhirMu..

Ya Allah jika aku jatuh hati pada kekasihMu, jangan biarkan aku tertatih dan terjatuh dlm perjalanan panjang menyeru manusia kpdmu…

Ya Allah jika Kau halalkan aku merindui kekasihMu, jangan biarkan aku melampaui batas sehingga melupakan aku pada cinta hakiki dan rindu abadi hanya kepadaMu

Amin….

Nyum Nyum Nyum...

Nampak menyelerakan...sdp ne kalau time ne ada d dpn mata...terus masukkan ke dlm mulut..(^!^)/

Actually dah lama maw belajar buat cake ne..CHOCOLATE CAKE...

Becoz i really LOVE da CHOCOLATE CAKE...

I hope 1 day , I can bake dis cake...hope so..:)

The question is WHAT MEN WANT IN A WOMAN actually...sumtimes as a women...we do not knows what men want n think about us..so here we can explore bout dis...

Good Sex

Let’s not pretend that its just men who are looking for a capable and attentive sexual partner. We would be doing women an injustice if we didn’t give them credit for their sensual side. Men want a partner who will be willing to share her affection physically without intimidating him. I have seen it happen – some women simply look too intense or “hot” for men to approach. Sociologists tell us this could be because men are concerned about their ability to “please” these women in bed. To that end, there is something to be said for “dressing down” and being yourself. Some ways to show a man you’re interested in providing the physical attention he wants is through subtle gestures and touching. Graze his arm with your hand, let your hips touch casually, or just outright put your hand on his face – playfully. The point of subtle touch is to make him think it was casual, so don’t be too serious about it. By allowing for casual touch, you’ll be planting a seed in his mind. Besides, you can find out if you even like touching him long before committing to a date. Don’t be intimidated by men’s desire for good sex – after all, isn’t it one of your desires, too?

Healthy Appearance

What Do Ment Want In A Woman?Thank God there is no ideal physical appearance, no perfect female standard to adhere to. Social scientists have tried to describe the “perfect” body, telling us that men look for things like the “70% ratio” of waist to hips (a nearly impossible feat), or perfect facial symmetry, something that you’re either born with or not. Rather than try to squeeze your body into someone else’s idea of beauty, it is more important to maintain your health, take care of yourself, and practice good hygiene. Most men I talk to say that women stand out for simple reasons – some men look for red hair, still others are after an attractive smile. The one thing I don’t hear is that men get out a tape measure and calculate waist to hip ratios or distance between eyes, etc. Men will either be attracted to a woman initially, or they won’t. By paying attention to your health (eating fruits and vegetables, trying to stay within a healthy weight range) and practicing basic hygiene (brushing your teeth, keeping your hair clean) you will do yourself and your potential dates a favor. Whether or not a man is attracted to you is out of your hands. The best you can do is prepare yourself – and by the way, keeping your body healthy is a good idea in general. A healthy body is a happy body, and good general health leads to good mental health. You have no say in whether or not a man is attracted to you, but you do have control over your health.

Trust

The word “trust” here refers not just to a man’s ability to trust that you won’t cheat on him, but his ability to come to you for his emotional needs. All people require trust before they’re willing to share with someone on a deep level – the kind of level that is healthy for a relationship. If a man thinks you’ll listen to his problems and immediately rush off to the internet to Twitter all your friends about it, he won’t have that sense of trust necessary to really develop a relationship. In fact, a lack of trust can lead to some really unhealthy partnering. A many may be willing, for instance, to have sex with you or flirt with you, but a perceived lack of trust will keep him from really connecting with his partner. You will become, pardon the expression, a “booty call” – not because he’s a jerk, but because he doesn’t trust you enough to move the relationship into the next phase. Here is another way in which you and your potential man are similar; you both need trust to make a relationship work. How do you show that you are trustworthy? Avoid gossiping to him about your friends. It may seem fun, and yes its necessary to blow off steam, but it will teach him another important lesson – that you are untrustworthy.

Sense of Humor

Men and women both need humor in their lives to stay happy. Humor is also a great icebreaker in many different difficult situations. How many times has a simple joke turned an awkward first date into a relaxed good time, or how often have you used humor to “disarm” someone you’ve been attracted to? There will most certainly come times in your relationship that a good joke will keep a minor disagreement from becoming a full fledged argument. Humor works because it breaks down our sense of ourselves, relaxes us physically (laughter being the best medicine), and shows people around us that we have a playful and friendly side. Men want a woman with a sense of humor for the same reason women want the same thing in a man – humor keeps our mood bright, and can even ignite passion. It turns out, laughter is also one of the best aphrodisiacs, and men will find your sense of humor, no matter how goofy or corny, a serious turn on.


Meanwhile...for the women...WHAT WOMEN WANT IN A MEN???


Confidence

Most men either have no confidence, or carry around a false sense of confidence in an attempt to impress women. Women, just like men, want to see “real confidence” in a man’s behavior and attitude, and are sensitive to true confidence versus false bravado. Even if you can fake your confidence at first, any woman you attract and begin spending time with will learn your “true colors” with time – usually it doesn’t take very long. Having confidence is about more than thinking you’re attractive, or believing that you can achieve certain goals. A confident man will share his opinions without being argumentative, doesn’t mind an intellectual debate, is open to new ideas, and doesn’t constantly ask if “everything’s alright”. Carry this confidence into the bedroom – don’t ask if she’s having a good time or if you’re a good enough lover, simply assume you are and let her make the final decision. Most women react to confidence the way most men react to large breasts – it could be the most attractive thing about men to many women. In fact, true confidence will seep into the other areas of your life, and pretty much ensure that the other three categories listed here will be met.

Affection

Showing affection is not a matter of physical contact or emotional connection alone, but a complex mix of the two. Just like men, women want to know that they are appreciated, and this comes through affection and closeness as much as it does through any other aspect of a relationship. Take the time to learn a woman’s likes and dislikes, and cater your actions to these things. This doesn’t mean compromising your own taste -- okay, so it does sometimes, but not all the time. An example of a small gesture that shows affection would be something like what happened on my first date with my current girlfriend. We were on a walk around the town square, and could only scrape together enough money for one glass of wine to share between the two of us. She mentioned a preference for Chardonnay, a wine that I usually detest. Though I wanted to order the heftiest and most expensive pinot noir on the menu, I compromised and shared her Chardonnay with her. I smiled through the pain and could tell she really appreciated it. Affection is also shown in bigger gestures, including public affection like holding her hand to show you’re proud of her. Any pains you take to show true affection will be well rewarded, and your woman will feel special and appreciated.

Security

We live in an age where women can be truly independent – it is no longer true that a man must provide everything for his woman. Most of my girlfriends make more money than I do – what can I say, I’m just a humble internet freelancer. But providing “security” means more than bringing home the bacon, or standing up for her honor. A woman wants to know that her partner is going to work at least as hard as she is to get the good things in life. If you wait tables two days a week and spend the rest of your time playing video games, you don’t make a very likely partner long term. Paying your bills and being financially honest with a woman are two other great tactics to proving you are stable and can help provide security to your relationship. Especially now, with the economy in a nosedive and not likely to get much better for a few years, it is important for your potential dating partner to know you’re going to pull your weight. Even though most women don’t need to simply take money from their men anymore, its vital for a man to prove that he can provide when called upon. Buy dinner as often as you can, give her little gifts, and put your nose to the grind at work. Your potential partners will appreciate the show of security, and your confidence will get a big boost.

Understanding

Women are often stereotyped as “emotional” creatures – the truth is that all people are emotional, male and female. If you weren’t an emotional guy, you wouldn’t be reading this article right now – you wouldn’t be at all concerned with a woman’s feelings. Being “understanding” means providing a shoulder to cry on, honest advice and support during tough times, and sometimes just the ability to have a quiet night in when your partner is feeling down or sick or just plain tired. It is easy for us as men to overlook the little things that add up to being labeled “understanding” – if your girlfriend is feeling moody, consider curling up under a blanket and watching her favorite trashy TV show. If she is fighting with her friend, be a sounding board for her concerns without adding too much of our own opinion, unless she asks for it. When the two of you have a fight, and you most certainly will at some point, listen to her complaints and concerns, and respond honestly. Understanding is a vital part of a successful romantic relationship, and one that we men struggle with the most.

Women's Desires

Remember that every woman is different, and most women wouldn’t appreciate their desires being generalized according to the above four guidelines. These are just meant to be brainstorms for men who are completely confused about women’s desires. No human being is the same as any other – and you will no doubt find women who AREN’T looking for “security” or a man who is “understanding”. However, making yourself sensitive and open to being confident, showing affection, providing a certain amount of security for a woman, and trying to be emotionally open and understanding can only make you a better and more interesting man – and hopefully, a more appealing love partner.

I REALLY MISS U...DAMN MISS U :(

Radit Love Jani

He's the man that i...adore..i mean i adore with his character in every movies that i watch him...
Actually i saw him for the 1st time in RADIT LOVE JANI movies..even im a very late person that watch dis movies becoz its already 2 years ago have been showing in cinema...i juz copying dis movie frm my cousin..ha8..1stly i dun understnd what about dis movie..but then i noe wht the director of this movies want to show to his audiences bout this story.. actually...its all about LIFE,LOVE AND the LIFE SUCK.So interesting movie that i ever watched...till my tears fall down..so sad laaa...we can learn also from this movie..if we re not have any job..and doing bad thing in our life..maybe we cant survive anymore..no one who cares about us..nobody want to looked at us...becoz in dis story...radit and jani have a big2 trouble in their life because their not have any job..n radit still taking drug even he knows that the thing is juz useless...no job..no money..no food..no life..sucking!!!many moral values in this story...the end of this story jani was married to the other guys..and have one little girl from her marriage with radit...both of them divorces becoz of opposition from jani's family...very make me touching...i guess they will be together till de end but finally they were seperated...n i still remember the words they also use in their conversation is "AKU SAYANG KAU BODOH""AKU LAPAR BODOH" n 1 words that i love to hear...'Suatu Hari Nanti Itu Akan Ada."

According to this movies..make me think about my future life with my prince charming..i dun want same with Radit And Jani's life...i want better life with my husband so that i can live in happiness till de end of my life with my lover...he8 :D

This is ost from RADIT LOVE JANI


Tentang Kita
by: Peterpan

Waktu terasa semakin berlalu
tinggal kan cerita tentang kita
akan tiada lagi kini tawamu
tukapus kan semua sepi dihati

ada cerita tentang aku dan dia
dan kita bersama saat dulu kala
ada cerita tentang masa yang indah
saat kita berduka saat kita tertawa

teringat di saat kita tertawa bersama
ceritakan semua tentang…..

ada cerita tentang aku dan dia
dan kita bersama saat dulu kala
ada cerita tentang masa yang indah
saat kita berduka saat kita tertawa

Hari ini i dun noe why i sungguh pemalas dan amat malas...hmmm...xtaw..rasa malas maw p mana2..kalau bole duduk jak 24 jam xpun tidur jak 24 jam...n makan 24 jam...gilak!!!aku xtaw la kalu ari2 bgini...sdh duduk uma ari2..jadi makin pemalas..even ada internet pun busan juak...busan sungguh!!!xtawu maw wat apa...nasib la ada aktiviti g blajar driving...ada juga aktiviti...tp klu xda...aku akan semakin pemalas tahap cipan...hmmm..maw jalan2 bdr..dompet kering...xtawu laaa..maw cari keja..keja pun suma maw shift malam..waduh2!!!xda rejeki kali ne cuti...smgt nya punya tinggi 1st2 tgok2 down balik...klu maw cari keja lagi time2 ne..xtaw la dpt ka x..dah la xlama lagi practical..nthlaa..hmmm...busan amat...duk uma jadi suri uma la!!!heee..^^

Cinta ini menggelisahkan aku
Membuat aku gila
Andai kita terpisah
Mati rasa-rasaku

Cinta ini membodohkan aku
Menutup akal sehatku
Andai engkau tak disisi
Risau isi jiwaku

Selama kau belum jadi milikku yang utuh
Aku akan selalu milikimu
Selama bumi masih akan terus berputar
Aku akan slalu menujumu
Walau ke ujung dunia

Cinta ini membodohkan aku
Menutup akal sehatku
Andai kita terpisah
Mati rasa-rasaku

Aku amat happy hari ne..cuz finally aku LULUS jugak...he8..punya nya aku takut gagal...waduh2...boleh tersenyum sudah...lega rasanya...syukurlah...btw..aku msti slesaikan suma ne secepat mungkin memandangkan xlama lagi practical..sempatka juga...waduh2...ne jadi persoalan lagi...apapun...aku happy bangat sih!!!

Aku xtaw la napa la dia begitu sudah...xmacam aku kenal dulu...maybe dulu dia xserlahkan perangai sbnr dia kali..ntahla...setiap manusia mesti mudah berubah...tapi aku hairanlah napa dia begitu sudah...sedih pun ada juga...xsangka dia macam tu sudah...ntahlah...aku harap dia berubahlah menjadi insan yang baik...jadi tiada yang pandang rendah dengan dia...cara percakapannya tu akan menampakkan kelemahan dia...n org akan pandang serong ngn dia..kalau lah aku rapat lagi ngn dia mcm dulu2 kan besh...insyaALLAH aku akan ckp direct to da point apa yg aku xsetuju ngn perangai dia if apa yg aku cakap ne utk menyedarkan dia.bkn memperkecilkan dia..actually aku xmaw dia mcm skg..aku lebih suka dia yang dulu...napala ko berubah wahai sahabatku...apa sebenarnya yang membelenggu fikiranmu?hmm..aku sedih tgok perubahan sikap dia..amat drastik sekali..berpunca dri apalah dia jadi begitu...aku sygkan persahabatan kita..tp maw wat cam mna kita masing2 dah xmacam dulu.aku pun dah teramat segan maw bercakap ngn ko macam dulu2...nth la napa..hmm..aku harap ko berubah lah..aku sayang kan ko...aku sayangkan persahabatan kita...berubahlah untuk dirimu..percayalah..apa yg berlaku dgn dirimu adalah satu ujian..yg sebenarnya ko bole lalui...u owez in my heart even though.....:)

Memandangkan xlama lagi maw practical so aku kena cepatkan amik ujian comp...n selesaikan semua nya drving prac...kalau x, xda masa lagi maw wat semua ne kalau dah practical start...tapi xtaw la aku bole ka abeskan belajar ne dalam tempoh yang singkat ne...hope abes la juga..xpa slow2 dulu kata org...fikirkan maw amek ujian ne...better aku amek khamis ne la..n hope lulus la..ameen..then bole amek bengkel...hee..semangat sdh ne...arap2 semuanya berjalan dgn lancar..ameen...tunggu practical...xtaw la di mana nanti aku dihumban...hope yang dekat2 ngn umah aku..kan bagus...plz..Dr Nazil posting kan saya dkt umah saya...=) mcmla d dgr kunuk hasrat hati tu...maw berdepan dgn Dr Nazil pun takut...cukuplah sekali kena bebel...xmaw kedua kali lagi...hek8..apapun..semua nya akn berjalan dgn lancar..ameen...=)

OMG!!! RINDU plak..he8..ntahla napa pla terasa rindu...bila terasa rindu...ku sebut nama mu..ha8..gila..kalau la masa boleh diulang semula...tapi semua tu mustahil...cuz masa akan sentiasa kehadapan.ha8..i really miss him yg sllu wat org ketawa, happy n blah blah blah...tp apakan daya...skg n sebelum ne xkan bole diputar semula...apapun aku tetap redha..apa yang berlaku sebelum ne dan skrg..ada hikmah disebaliknya...apapun dia sentiasa dihatiku...semoga dia sentiasa berjaya walau dimana pun dia pergi..perasaan RINDU juga berkabung mengenang zaman2 skula..zmn2 hostel...uwaaa...mna sdh kawan2 aku yg lain...really miss them too..to my bestie...kyme,shida n nana...i really miss u all myamor...aku harap kamu baik2 jak di sana...aku sentiasa doakan kejayaan kamu...aku akan tetap ingat saat2 kita bersama dulu2..study sama2..hang out..n semua2 tu akan sentiasa tersimpan diingatan ne...ku harap kita sama2 menjadi insan yang berjaya kelak...ameen..RINDU juga dengan ex housemate aku D 1210...uwaaa...mengenang balik ne nombor bilik...teringat plak KELAB JIWA LUKA...kebanyakannya pnduduk2 umah ne mengalami jiwa yang sering terluka..pendek kata BROKENHEART...RINDU dgn Along,Amy,Daya,Yati,Wan,Sue,Nor,Akak Nita,Akak Yana,Ieka, Ranjeni,Yana, Ayu n Ama...wish korang sentiasa happy sllu..amat rindukan kamoo semua..rindu saat2 bersama korg..rindu time gila2..rindu time revision 4 EXAM..kita2 yg last minutes kan..malam baru stay up..he8..lepas tu rindu jalan2 ramai2...bila la dapat ketemu kamoo lagi syg2 ku..i wish one day kita bole jmpa lagi..ameen..gonna misyu all syg2ku...RINDU dengan UNiSEL, suasana class, suasana lab,suasana LT1 n LT2 n rindu suasana MH..paling RINDU juga dgn kamoo sahabat2ku.. Celes,Rose,Mun,Yana,Zati,Sue,Anje,Aini,Jazz,Una n As...amat rindukan kamoo...semua pun nt dgn kehidupan masing2, dgn practicalnya..yg lain pun ada yg xsama tmpat practical...sedih..apapun...best of luck my gurls..semoga kamu berjaya sahabat2ku..gonna miss u all..Walaupun kita x lagi seperti dulu2...bole sama2...tp persahabatan kita sentiasa dihati...semoga kamoo semua berjaya n May ALLAH bless u all guys...LOVE U all guys...

Dengan nama Allah yang Maha Pengasih lagi Maha Penyayang

Ya Allah…
Seandainya telah Engkau catatkan…
Dia milikku tercipta buatku…
Satukanlah hatinya dengan hatiku…
Titipkanlah kebahagiaan antara kami…
Agar kemesraan itu abadi…

Ya Allah…
Ya Tuhanku yang Maha Mengasihani…
Seringkanlah kami melayari hidup ini…
Ketepian yang sejahtera dan abadi…
Maka jodohkanlah kami…

Tetapi Ya Allah…
Seandainya telah Engkau takdirkan
Dia bukan milikku…
Bawalah dia jauh daripada pandanganku…
Luputkanlah dia dari ingatanku…
Dan periharalah aku dari kekecewaan…

Ya Allah ya Tuhanku yang Maha Mengerti…
Berikanlah aku kekuatan…
Menolak bayangannya jauh ke dada langit…
Hilang bersama senja yang merah…
Agarku sentiasa tenang…
Walaupun tanpa bersama dengannya…

Ya Allah yang tercinta…
Pasrahkanlah aku dengan takdir-Mu…

Sesungguhnya apa yang telah Engkau takdirkan
Adalah yang terbaik untukku…
Sesungguhnya Engkau Maha Mengetahui…
Segala yang terbaik buat hamba-Mu ini…

Ya Allah…
Cukuplah Engkau sahaja yang menjadi pemeliharaku…
Di dunia dan akhirat…
Dengarkanlah rintihan daripada hamba-Mu yang daif ini…
Jangan Engkau biarkan aku sendirian…
Di dunia ini mahupun di akhirat…
Menjuruskan aku ke arah kamaksiatan dan kemungkaran…
Maka kurniakanlah aku seorang pasangan yang beriman…
Agar aku dan dia sama-sama dapat membina kesejahteraan hidup…
Ke jalan yang Engkau redhai…
Dan kurniakanlah kepadaku keturunan yang soleh dan solehah…

Ya Allah…
Berikanlah kami kebahagiaan di dunia dan akhirat…
Dan periharalah kami dari azab api Neraka…

Amin…amin…Ya rabbal ‘aalamin.

Amat SAYANG kan mereka,
Mereka lah NYAWA saya,
Mereka lah SEGALANYA buat saya,

Semoga Kebahagiaan Ini Berkekalan Selamanya,
Tiada Puisi yang lebih indah,
Selain mencurahkan rasa sayang dan kecintaan
buat keluarga yang tercinta...

Dimana kan ku cari ganti,
insan seperti mereka,
tiada tolok bandingnya,
di dunia yang sementara ini...

Senyuman yang terukir,
Di bibir ibunda dan ayahanda,
Adalah pengubat kedukaan di hati,
Dan kebahagiaan buat diri anakanda...

Pengorbanan yang tak terhitung jumlahnya,
Kasih sayang yang diberi sejak di dalam kandungan ibu lagi,
Amat anakmu hargai,
Itulah pengorbanan yang amat besar sekali...

Wahai cintaku,
Tiada hadiah yang lebih berharga,
Dengan hanya mendoakan agar Ibunda dan Ayahanda
Selamat di dunia dan di akhirat,

May ALLAH Bless Our Family Always...Ameen

LOVE so much my BELOVED FAMILY..

SAKIT HATI fikirkan masalah laptop aku ni...bolehnya time2 begini la pla dia buat hal...bukan maw tuduh my adik2..tp after drg guna..terus jadi lain icon2 dalam laptop aku...hmmm...sdhla byk benda lagi aku maw buat..ne timbul lagi satu masalah...aku harap masalah ne akan settle la secepat mungkin...hmm...sob..sob..sob..:(

“The price is too high and the consequences and lingering effects are way to painful!” Smart women understand this irrefutable truth...

1. There are two types of males: Dishonorable males and honorable men. Don’t date or marry until you know how to tell the difference between the two! The woman in the mirror will graciously thank you.

2. Honorable men are protectors. They will guard your heart, protect your emotions, defend your honor and stand as champions for your spiritual, mental and physical well-being; choose an honorable man and choose life!

3. You are not a car: if you meet a man who wants to test drive your physical body, emotions and feelings, point him to a car dealership, bid him adieu and don’t look back!

4. This is a true saying: “The soul of a woman is fragile.” Please note: dishonorable males refuse to respect this crucial truth. They will toy with a woman’s emotions without any semblance of concern or compassion. Therefore YOU must guard your heart from these cold-hearted males with all diligence.

5. Good men need to be treated like good men, dishonorable males, need to be let go and left alone!

6. OK ladies; you’ve met this great guy, but he’s got a child or children for which he does not take care of, provide for or see to. Follow these instructions to the letter urgently send him back to the mothers of his children and don’t look back. Don’t make the same mistake the mothers of his children did!

7. Dishonorable males treat sex as a sport, females as trophies and children they sire as wastepaper. Never allow yourself to become their next score, mantle piece or sperm repository.

8. Women who hold grudges, seek vengeance, cling to bitterness and are unwilling to forgive, unwittingly break their own hearts!

9. Choose the wrong mate and you might as well have laid next to a boa constrictor or grabbed the ears of a raging mad pit bull. A smart woman learns how to choose her mate wisely!

10. Heed the sage advice of some caring brothers and honorable men. If he doesn’t fit - don’t force him, just relax and let him go. Destiny is on your side… True Love Will Find You...

11. Momma’s boys belong with only one type of woman; their moms! Ladies, these mothers and their sons will never cut their grotesque umbilical cord. Therefore, for your sake, leave them alone and just let them trot home to their mommies.

12. Self-love: if you don’t have it, pull yourself off the market. Make no mistake about it, if you don’t love yourself, NO MAN can ever love you… no matter how great a man he is.

13. Don’t judge ALL men by one man’s actions; unless you want ALL men to judge you based on the acts of amoral women.

14. Most women learn how to choose a mate the hard way; they go through a gut wrenching string of emotionally detached males, jerks, pimps, thugs and players. Don’t become one of those heart broken and bitter women! Learn how to properly choose a mate before it’s too late! The woman in the mirror will graciously thank you.

15. You wondering, “If I move in with him, is he going to marry me?” Answer: “Not likely!” Don’t believe it, take these two critical tests: (a). Ask any honorable man! And, (b). Examine the ever-growing list of disillusioned women who are begrudgingly waiting for their non-committal live-in lovers to pop the big question.

16. Do you keep attracting men who are dogs? Check the scent you’re putting out. Men who are dogs are attracted by scent!

17. You are not a man! Therefore, you will never be: a role model for men, a father figure, a man’s mentor or a man’s coach. If a man has lacked proper male leadership in his life, kindly send him on his way. Know for a certainty; he is not prepared for the responsibilities that come with love, sex, relationship and marriage.

18. If you don’t know what a misogynistic man is, take this time to check your dictionary. For your sake, sanity and safety, avoid these treacherous males at all costs.

19. Don’t ever delude yourself! Your beauty, fine body, sexual prowess, cooking skills, femininity and vibrant personality will never be enough to change a man, NEVER!

20. If your potential mate does such things as: promises to call you but doesn’t, makes dates and breaks them, shows up late or plays games with your emotions; take notes ladies... those are clear cut warning signs that he DOES NOT value you, he DOES NOT love you and he DOES NOT care about you!

21. Angry, bitter, hostile, combative, unforgiving single women, become: angry, bitter, hostile and combative, unforgiving wives.

22. A fundamental understanding and respect of the male ego is a must for all women who want a vibrant and healthy love; DO NOT obtain this crucial information from dishonorable males or from angry bitter women.

23. If you choose to be with dishonorable males, pimps, players, thugs, ballers and shot callers, you have absolutely no right to complain when they torch your emotions, abuse you, leave you pregnant and alone, jeopardize your safety and otherwise harm or hurt you. Remember, you have freedom of choice and you chose to be with them!

24. When a man is trying to find himself, kindly bid him adieu… PERMANENTLY! He can find you, but can’t find himself? He shouldn’t be looking for love… he should be searching for the map to Mastering Manhood!

25. OK; he wants or is demanding sex but you are not his wife. Write this down: There is no need to wonder, debate or contemplate he DOES NOT honor or respect you!

26. Spoiled women are like spoiled milk, spoiled meat, spoiled fruit spoiled bread and spoiled brats. Get the picture? Don’t become a spoiled woman!

27. Expecting a dishonorable male to do the honorable thing is like expecting piranhas not to devour you if you make the mistake of diving into their water.

28. You’ve asked these questions, “Why doesn’t he call me more often? Why doesn’t he pursue me more diligently and why doesn’t he show me that he loves me?” Answer; he’s not into you! If you don’t let him go and move on with your life, you will allow him to hinder or block your true love from finding you!

29. All men ARE NOT dogs! Don’t believe, repeat or perpetuate that rampant lie! You will hamper your ability to see and discern the good men who cross your path!

30. Some males like to hit women. It gives them a sense of power and control. If you give yourself to one of these abusive males, most assuredly you will become a punching bag and a floor mat. It is critical that you learn how to detect and avoid these cretins!

31. Promiscuous immoral women are not worthy of an honorable man. They never have been and they never will be.

32. Never allow emotionally embittered women to influence you concerning the male gender. If you do, their hatred and unforgiveness will become yours. Soon you will find yourself suspicious, indignant and angry at all men.

33. You were not designed, built or destined for abuse, whether: emotionally, physically or financially. If he is an abuser, there is no need to deliberate… he IS NOT the one; leave him now!

34. Some women live their lives vicariously through the women on “Girlfriends, Sex In The City and Desperate Housewives.” Don’t become one of these women. If you do, you will make a literal mess of your life, emotions, physical body and well-being.

35. When a man truly loves you, he will honor and respect you. If he doesn't… don’t deceive yourself and don’t allow him to defraud you; he DOES NOT love OR care about you!

36. Everyone has skeletons in their closet? Wrong! Not everyone has skeletons in their closet. Don’t start putting any in yours!

37. There is a vast difference between sex and love. Most men know the difference and you had better learn it fast! If you fail or refuse to do so, you are surely headed for relationship or marital crash and burn.

38. Don’t deceive yourself, once you have sex with a man who is not your husband… he may never admit it, but he has lost a degree of respect for you. Don’t believe it? Ask any honorable man or virtuous woman.

39. The dismal cycle of breaking up and making up only works out in the romance novels, television shows and movies. If you are riding that emotional roller coaster get off right now! Your heart, mind and soul will forever thank you.

40. Nothing is more beautiful, captivating, attractive and sensual than a woman with a gentle and peaceable spirit!

2. Put family first.(Time with family is priceless)

3. Take a walk. (Our legs are meant to move us, so move)

4. Drink a glass of red wine daily.(It's been a practice for centuries, it must be good)

5. Reduce and manage stress. (Stress kills, so avoid it or deal with it)

6. Have a purpose. (Be excited when you wake up each morning)

7. Get outdoors. (We came from nature, go back for a visit)

8. Be grateful. (Appreciate what you got and you will get more)

9. Have fun. (Do things that you enjoy)

10.Maintain a healthy body weight (Move more, eat less)

11. Get regular exercise. (Push and pull heavy things)

12. Love and laugh. (Preferably both at the same time)

13. Snack on nuts. (The most nutrient dense food in the world)

14.Give something back. (If you want to get, you have to give)

15. Eat a large breakfast. (Your mother was right...again)

16. Eat a medium lunch. (It's a lunch break, not a lunch buffet)

17. Eat a small dinner. (Enough eating already)

18. Drink plenty of water. (It's the basis of all living things)

19. Sleep when it's dark. (There is a reason why we can't see in the dark)

20. Learn new things. (You Live, You Learn)

Try It now!!! :)

I'll never walk alone again, the winds of time are to strong. Ah, it's that what you hurts, which you'll have to live with... Ah, this tight embrace, and this burning, unchanged heart. In this ever changing time, love will never change. Will you hold my heart? Stop flowing tears. Again, all of my heart is broken.... Forever love, forever dream Only flowing emotions,bury this intense, trying, meaningless times. Oh tell me why ... all I see is blue in my heart. Will you stay with me? Wait until after the wind passes, all my tears are still flowing... Forever love, forever dream Stay with me like this. Hold my trembling heart in the dawn. Oh stay with me... Ah, everything good seems to be ending, in this unending night. Ah, what else would you lose if nothing at all matters. Forever love, forever dream, stay with me like this. Hold my trembling heart in the dawn. Oh will you stay with me... Until the wind passes, stay with me again. Forever love, forever dream, I'll never walk this path. Oh tell me why, tell me true, teach me how to live. Forever love, forever dream, within flowing tears Bright seasons will forever change again and again .... forever love...
P/S Dear Him That I Really Love Most...I Wish U Will Be Always Happy And May ALLAH Bless You Always. Eventhough we are not together but You will always in my heart till de end of my life...Eventhough U r not my destiny but this LOVE is forever in my heart...

♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Assalammualaikum...

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